No More Mr. Nice Guy? | Brannon and Tyler Patrick | #109

Dec 2

Today on Stronger Marriage Connection, Dr. Dave Schramm and Dr. Liz Hale talk with therapist brothers Tyler and Brannon Patrick about the "Mr. Nice Guy" persona and its impact on relationships. Often driven by fear and insecurity, this behavior can unintentionally undermine trust and intimacy. The Patricks share how men can embrace authenticity, healthy masculinity, and deeper connection, offering actionable advice on boundaries, communication, and building a courageous marriage. Whether you relate to these challenges or seek to strengthen your relationship, this episode provides valuable insights.

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Chapters:

00:00 – What is Mr. Nice Guy?
03:49 – Meet therapists Tyler & Brannon
06:55 – The root of Mr. Nice Guy
09:22 – Consequences of avoiding conflict
12:32 – Core fears and insecurities explained
16:29 – Problems created by Mr. Nice Guy
20:28 – Advice for partners of Nice Guys
24:09 – Reclaiming authenticity and masculinity
26:25 – Assertiveness and empathy balance
28:46 – Importance of healthy differentiation
32:24 – The Therapy Brothers podcast
34:07 – Rising Sun Conference and resources
35:22 – Keys to a courageous marriage
37:18 – Takeaway: honesty and authenticity

About:

Tyler has been dedicated to his own recovery for over 15 years, striving to live the principles he teaches and becoming a man of courage, passion, and love. Married for over 20 years and a proud father of four daughters, he enjoys fly-fishing, backpacking, training his German shorthair pointer, River, and supporting his children's interests.

As a marriage and family therapist, Tyler specializes in recovery from sexual addiction and betrayal trauma. He believes those who fully embrace recovery not only regain their lives but also become exceptional spouses and parents. He feels honored to guide individuals on their journey toward a connected and transformed life.

Brannon is passionate about repairing broken relationships and has created several programs for addiction recovery and betrayal. Since 2015, his online content has reached and helped heal thousands of couples worldwide. As co-clinical director and owner of TherapyUTAH, he has extensive experience treating various addictions in settings ranging from inpatient psychiatric care to intensive outpatient programs. Brannon is also a Certified Sexual Addiction Therapist with specialized training in recovery.

In addition to his clinical work, Brannon is a writer, blogger, podcaster, and content creator. He co-hosts The Betrayed, The Addicted, and The Expert podcast with Ashlynn and Coby Mitchell, offering unique perspectives on relationships, recovery, and addiction to guide listeners through meaningful change.

Insights:

Brannon: "Authenticity is key to real relationships. Mr. Nice Guys fear showing their true selves—it takes courage, but it's necessary for connection."
Tyler: "If this topic makes you uncomfortable, examine why. Then, discuss it with your spouse."
Liz: "The yin-yang dynamic shows that embracing femininity inspires masculinity, and vice versa."
Dave: "Kindness should be genuine, not fear-driven. Safety and trust form the foundation of a strong relationship." d things going on in my brain.”

Brannon and Tylers Resources

https://therapybrothers.org/about-us/

https://www.therapyutah.org/meet-brannon-patrick/

https://lovestrong.com/our-podcasts/

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